Could You Really Attract Italian Women & Girls Without Much Effort?

Could You Really Attract Italian Women & Girls Without Much Effort?

The Answer Is Yes! … This Article Will Teach You Everything You Need To Know.

Italy… An amazing country to visit. And while you’re at it, why not pick some Italian girls?

I mean…


Well, the thing is that you can’t just go to Italy and expect to pick up women the same way as back home. They are pretty different.

That’s why today we’re going to get into the intricacies of Italian women. We’ll talk about everything you need to know in order to attract and seduce the Italian women you’re dreaming of.

First off, we’ll just summarize all the key points that we’ll go through. After that, we’ll talk about everything in detail.

Sooo, let’s get right to it, shall we:

  • Italian Women are very feminine
  • Italian Girls love flirting
  • They want you to be persistent
  • Italians dress incredibly well
  • It’s a much more social circle oriented community
  • Italian Girls are used to chivalry
  • Italian Women are looking for a masculine man

Sounds about right… But what do all of these mean, you ask?

Don’t worry, when we’re finished with this short article you’ll have all the information you came for.

The thing is that Italians are veeery different from other Europeans. That’s why I’m writing this now, for you.

And without further ado, let’s just get to it:


1. Italian Women Are Very Feminine

More so than the average woman you’ll find elsewhere.

We’re not talking about Russian/Ukrainian levels of feminine (check the guide on Russian Women and Ukrainian Women), but still, more feminine than their American counterparts.

The thing is: Italian girls are raised in a society that focuses a lot on gender stereotypes. As such, she’s going to be enjoying the benefits of being taken care for financially throughout the better part of her life. Also, she’ll want to take care of your well-being in return.

That’s also shown in the almost cult-like appreciation Italians have for their mothers. It’s never rare to see Italians staying home with their families until they marry.

This means that she’ll be expecting from you to take care of the bills. And it’s a sign that you’re cheap if you even suggest to split it up.

Also, since Italian women are usually looking for serious relationships rather than a casual hookup, she’ll be screening you for boyfriend/husband/provider material qualities (hence, appearing to be cheap is not a great thing).

Now, even if you yourself are looking for something more casual, that’s completely fine. The thing is, she’s hardwired to look for these things in guys and will be (generally) turned off by guys who aren’t portraying them.

Another point about their femininity is the fact that they don’t really like to show overt interest to potential partners…

For example, a girl giving you her number means that she’s really interested in you. As such, if you just met her it’s better to ask her for her Facebook, or Instagram, or Snapchat than for her phone number.

Do ask for her number after a few dates (if she went out with you on those dates this means that she likes you … obviously … so you can push things further).

2. Italian Girls Love Flirting

Their culture is very centered around chivalry (more on that later). As such, the Italian women have grown to be very skilled at flirting.

She’ll know how to play the game, and you better do too. For Italians, flirting is as enjoyable as sex… Maybe even more than sex…

You better prepare to be tested a ton. She’ll ask you tricky questions to determine whether you’re the cool, alpha male that you’re presenting yourself as.

She’ll also reject you a lot. Purely to see how you react and to test your persistence.

Which brings us to: Be Persistent.

Italian girls don’t want to be seem as ‘easy’. They want to feel as if they’re the price and you’re chasing them.

Obviously, that’s not what you want to do, you want to turn it around, but you can’t win them over by being a douchebag (like girls in America). You’ll have to put in some work while getting her to put some work in too.

It’s important to note that you shouldn’t be too persistent either. If a girl is genuinely not interested, you shouldn’t harass her. You’ll know when that happens because she’ll obviously not be flirting with you (or if she just rejects you every time… usually you should be getting the hint after the third or fourth ‘no’).

That being said, being persistent is a masculine trait. And Italian women are definitely looking for more of a masculine male than not.

See, a lot of Italian men are the so called ‘mamma’s boy’ (this is because as we spoke, in their culture the mother is incredibly important and cherished). You don’t want to be like that, obviously, but you don’t want to be against mothers in general (her mother, your mother, etc.)

That’s because you don’t want to insult anyone. Also, you shouldn’t treat your mother badly (She’ll make connections… The way you treat the women of your life would probably be the way you treat her in the future).

But, let’s talk a little about chivalry, because it ties in to this sooo well…

3. Italian Women Are Looking For Chivalrous Men

Chivalry is definitely NOT dead in Italy.

Italian men will open doors, pay the bills, and kiss hands… And you want to do the same if you’re hoping to attract any Italian woman at all.

See, being chivalrous is definitely an important skill (some things more than other) for every part of the world. But it’s even more important in Italy.

Whereas in some places of the globe you can get by without paying for the bill and you won’t be condemned for it, in Italy if you don’t pay the bill you’re not going on a second date, you’re not getting her number, and you’re probably not going to hear from her again.

Regardless, you pretty much have to be chivalrous when it comes to Italian girls. And don’t worry, it’s not a wasted skill… You’ll find it very useful with every woman on the planet, so just learn how to be chivalrous.

4. Italian Girls Are Used To Fashionable Men

Italians in general dress incredibly well. They dress to impress if you will.

You can’t just go out in flip flops, shorts, a t-shirt, some shades AND expect women to go head over heels for you. It’s just not going to happen.

You need to invest in looking great. Get yourself a nice shirt, stylish pants, a pair of black shoes, and a blazer.

It’s not all about clothes though. Get a modern haircut, shave or trim your beard, brush your teeth, and use a deodorant. You don’t want to look or smell bad.

Other than that, just try to look a bit into fashion. Usually, you can get a pretty good guess by taking a note of what the stores have in the front and asking the staff in clothing stores.

Almost forgot: Don’t turn your back on accessories. A stylish watch, a tie, a belt that matches your shoes … Those are an absolute MUST.

5. Italy Is A Social Circle Oriented Community

What this means is that Italians do pretty much everything in group (well… not EVERYTHING, but you know…).

The usual way an average Italian guy would find girls is through his friends and their friends.

This gives you certain advantages AND disadvantages as a foreigner…

For one, you’ll have much more choice than an Italian guy. You’ll be able to approach pretty much any girl you like (not that Italian can’t do this, most of them just don’t).

On the other hand, it’ll be much harder since the girls will be hesitant to leave their friends … Especially for a stranger.

The best course of action is to bring a friend yourself. A wingman.

Since most of the times you won’t be able to approach a woman on her own (she’s probably going to be with a friend or two) you’ll need someone to keep the other girls company and help you out in the interaction. That’s because as soon as one of the girls loses interest she’s going to pull her friend away from you.

Either that or you can go for an odd number of girls. Soo, either a single girl or in a group of 3 or more. This way the girl you’re interested in won’t feel bad about leaving her friend because her friend will have someone to talk to.

We’re talking more about a nightlife scene than a day one here. She’ll probably never leave her friends to go around with a stranger during the day (and nor will her friends leave her).

Again, a wingman would be best.

Another thing is that Italians don’t usually go on one-on-one dates for the first date. It’s common to see your date coming with a friend and you’re expected to bring someone too.

This way it’s not a high pressure situation and there won’t be any awkward silences during the date.

Also, your girl will get to see who you like spending time with, what they are like, and how you treat them. Soo, that’s important too… Pick your wingmen with caution, haha.

She’ll also take notes on how you treat her friends and how you handle yourself in a group. So, make sure you’re showing positive qualities.

6. Last Few Tips For Attracting Italian Girls

Well, now you know a lot about the art of attracting and seducing Italian women, but there are certainly some things you can do to give yourself an edge over other men.

One of the best things you can do is learn a bit of Italian. You don’t have to speak it fluently, you just have to show that you care enough.

Learn one or two phrases so you can hold a decent conversation for a minute or two.

This will make you stand out by a mile. It’s also a great way to break the ice. It’s undoubtedly going to make her laugh. Sooo, just learn a bit of the language (this is a great tip in general, wherever you are. Try to learn a bit of the language whenever you’re travelling, it will go a looong way).

Another thing you can do is pick the right places to go to.

Italy has a much larger male population, so you want to stick to big cities with a lot of people.

The best place to visit if you’re looking for Italian women and having fun, is Milan. Another popular tourist attraction is Rome, but if you’re looking for fun instead of coliseums, then Milan is the place for you.

Aaanyways… Now you’re equipped with everything you need to know in order to attract and seduce those gorgeous Italian girls.

All in all, just make sure you’re being masculine and chivalrous while avoiding looking like a trash can and you’ll be doing pretty well for yourself.

Also, don’t forget to be persistent and ideally bring a wingman to help you out.

Lastly, don’t forget to tell the girlfriends of all the Italian women you seduce about me, haha. Nothing wrong with a little appreciation am I right.

Well, good luck in Italy and have a great time, my friend… Bye for now.

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